Tuesday, February 18, 2014

BFF's Reunite and President's Day...

So Ross hasn't had NEAR as many play dates as we used to have in Oregon.  It's just not as convenient as it was there.  I mean...looking out my window was about as far as I had to go since everyone seemed to live within about 40 feet of us.  

Needless to say he has missed his best buddies.  Wes and Ross were sort of made best buds since Kim and I arranged to swap boys while we exercised...it worked out so nicely - we did it all the way through having our second babies even.  It makes me laugh thinking of how they started off together - no acknowledgment.  They'd just separate and go play with their individual toys.  Eventually when the routine sunk in, they started getting excited when they'd see each other with a "Hi!" or "Hey!" and giant smiles...and then go play with their individual toys.  Finally they actually started playing together which was really fun...with bouts of sharing issues here and there, but they definitely liked hanging out together (since they had to be twice a week two hours at a time).  

When we moved back to Utah we skyped with Wes on the computer and Ross would reconfirm that Wes was in Colorado (on their internship) and then ask to go to his house since he was over talking to Wes on the "compeeter" (as he calls it).  One benefit of getting our three bedroom apartment was having a bit more space to work with - so we made sure to snag Wes and the fam to stay with us on their way back to Oregon when their rotation finished.   

We had a few moments of panic with Ross getting sick the day before in the morning and then again when Wes got sick the night before they were leaving, but we got to keep them here anyway for a couple days.  

Ross and Wes chatted like no time had passed and played toys like old times (which growls, grunts, and squeals in the sharing department) which I'm sure was good for both of them since sharing wasn't at the top of the list with fewer play dates occurring.  
 
These are the smiles I got...their dinner conversation consisted of, "I'm eating my dinner!"  "What's on your shirt?"  and "This is my cup."  Adorable.  They chatted at each other like no time had passed.



Chillin'


We had fun chatting, eating, and trying to line up nap times so we could all play some games without kids pulling at legs or snatching cards.  That lasted for about 45 blissful minutes. ;)
 
Buckets on heads always make for good pictures


Cameron knew how to sport it well...

The night before they left we chatted till it was super late about all our ideas for future parenting.  It was quite fun brainstorming how to monitor and teach our children important life lessons.  Some of them included:

1) Keep chickens and a garden.  If they want eggs for breakfast, take care of the chicken, you'll get your eggs...don't take care of it, and no eggs.  Simple.

2)  Small bedrooms and a big play room encourages families to spend time together more often.

3) Don't be afraid to power box your house if electronics become an issue.

4) Phones chargers located in the parent's room, also electronics get turned in nightly.  Nothing important needs to be played or person texted to after midnight.

5) Every kid needs to have a job they hate for a time...to learn that work won't always be fun or what you have in mind...makes you appreciate having any other sort of job.

Those were a few of the gems we came away with.  I think I'm all for brainstorming with other couples more often.  You get some great ideas from each other!

It went way too fast and three months till we see them at graduation seems so long, but we're so happy we got to spend some time with them anyway!
 
Dog piling in the mornings :)


Quick kids!


Dawson needed a snuggle.  Ruby figured they had it covered.

Wes liked following Ruby around making sure she stayed out of trouble.  Ruby liked the following around part...not so much the staying out of trouble part.

 On Sunday, Steve's dad was called to the Stake Presidency in their ward.  He will do a great job serving the Church in this way we know.  We got to go to their Stake Conference and be there for the setting apart.  It was a privilege to hear Elder Evans speak and have our testimonies strengthened throughout the meetings and the setting apart.  

The next day, President's Day, seemed appropriate to celebrate Steve's dad! ;)  Haha.  They burned their Christmas tree - which went way too fast.  We were supposed to have a weenie roast, but ended up grilling them instead.  It was fun anyway and we enjoyed a family night presentation by Steve's dad sharing the counsel he received during his training.  
 
The tree!



Wahoo!


Rubes was trying to figure out walking on the grass.  Piece of cake if she had one of your fingers.  Alone...and no idea what to do.

Still a happy pants though!

Heading to try a different fire with President Grandpa ;)

Ruby still hasn't moved... ;)

Trying to decide how to approach this. :)

Trying out the swing.

Ross wanted a turn!

This is how Ruby would hold her hands when she wanted you to come get her.

Trying to blow the fire!

Cute Daddy Daughter pic

Love ;)

Today I took the kids out to the park for the morning since the weather was so nice.  We had a great time and in turn, the kiddos took great naps!  Wahoo for me!  Life is good. :)

Rubes preferred running away at the park - it was the perfect game :)

Throwing pinecones is the BEST at the park.


Swingin'!
 
Bubble Girl :)






Happy Valentine's Day 2014!

Well I got into my usual mode for Valentine's day.  At least one of our meals has to be Valentine themed.  I figured to start it off nice for Steve and  actually make him breakfast (don't ask me when the last time was that I did that).  He was quite pleased. :)
 
Sausage, Scrambled Egg, and a Pancake with Apple Accents :)


Fired up for the day!

As he was just about to leave and I was finishing up Ross's breakfast, Ross came out saying he threw up....he just likes to give throw up as presents for the holidays I guess.  Christmas, Valentine's,  good times.
I snuggled him in with his blankets and pillow to chill and gave him tablespoons of water about every 5 minutes...which came back up after three Tablespoons.  I was flipping out a little bit since our friends, the Horchs, were supposed to be staying with us the next day on their trek back to their next internship.  I was guessing it was just something Ross ate since he was his merry old self otherwise.  I let our friends know and decided to watch him.  I was also flipping out because the kids were supposed to go stay with my parents for the night while Steve and I went out to celebrate Valentine's and sleep in the next day.  This hasn't happened since before Ross was born people....my plan was not to allow this to happen!  


Poor Sickie

This girl got to enjoy Ross's breakfast instead :)



Ross seemed just fine from about 9 on so I took that as a good sign and let everyone know our plans were still on!  
 
Cute Valentine clothes contributed by Grammy Joanne :)




Hugs!

This boy just gets cuter and cuter!

My love machine :)

This girl just wanted to brush her 5 teeth all morning...




I packed the kids up after their naps and headed to Cabela's where I was meeting my parents and brother to do the switch off.  Traffic was bad and just when I got off the exit, I took a wrong turn and somehow ended up back on the freeway...seriously...in bad traffic.  So about 20 minutes AFTER THAT, I finally met up with them and did the hand off.  Whew!

 Here's a video my brother made of what they kids did at Cabela's

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9nQJumBuBEg&feature=youtu.be

I hurried home and Steve and I set out for some AMAZING Indian food (seriously - Flavor of India in West Jordan was fabulous!) and to see a chick flick - Winter's Tale.  It started out fairly interesting if not a bit confusing...but when Will Smith showed up in 1910 wearing a t-shirt with a suit coat and earrings, I just let it go.  Fun to see something different though.

We were both a bit weirded out with the lack of children sleeping and fans running...but when I woke up the next day at 10....boy - that was a beautiful moment!  Happy Valentine's to us!  Steve and I both wrote cheesy, cute love poems to each other and enjoyed some chocolate dipped strawberries I made earlier along with our Sparkling Cider.  It was a great holiday. :)

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

Dealing with Snow and Girl's Night!

Well we've been going a bit crazy being cooped up inside, so we have gotten a little creative at times in how to entertain ourselves.  We headed out into the snow a few times to do some digging.  

Our Snow Bunny :)

The first dig


Ruby mostly just sat patting the snow all around her. :)

Steve and Ross built this sweet awesome snow tunnel at the beginning of January.  It stayed around until a few days ago!.  They also built that now creepy looking snowman who's also hung around just as long.





These guys found a helicopter in the midst of snow playing.

Ready for take off!!

Taking off the layers.
Later we've tackled practicing letters and sounds as well as counting and numbers.  Ross prefers to play trains and cars for the most part, but we fit it in there. :)  We've also played some ball games as well as a ton of hide and seek.  Ross has finally learned not to shout out, "I'm right here!" When the seeker is looking....he can't help giggling though.  Ruby is the seeker's tracker as well.  She's pretty good at detecting where you're hiding.
A Quad bike goes with Q - Q can be tricky.

Letters are so much more fun to practice when trucks and cars are involved.

and Airplanes

And especially Monster Trucks


This kid is determined to sleep with his "Dusty" every night...I have no idea why - it is not snuggly in the slightest!
The other night, Steve took Ross for a father/son outing, so Ruby and I decided to take advantage and have a girl's night!  We painted toes, took pictures, and swapped girlie stories. :)  Ruby was really good at holding still for her toes to be painted, and then I distracted her with snacks so she would stay for them to dry.  She kept laughing when I would blow on them to hurry along the process. :)
Pink toes!  I love the girlyness!

Her pink toes make me so happy!

Cutie girl trying to get the camera.

Wahoo for girls!


Her hair gets crazy, but I love the little curl behind her ear - it's adorable!

This girl just thinks she can do anything!

We also have started turning everyday things into other entertaining objects...like turning bowls into hats.  All through lunch Ross wore his bowl on his head laughing every ten seconds. :)
Bowl heads

He's STILL amused with it. :)

Mr. Valentine
This girl has gotten a recent obsession with boxes.  She likes to plop herself down in them.

She likes to bring things in the boxes with her too...

Balls are also fun to bring in boxes.  She seriously will just sit in here for a good 5-10 minutes totally content. 

Ross helping Ruby fill her box up with balls.  You always need a dump truck to help.

Satisfied girl.


I wandered in here to find Ruby and found her sitting like this by herself.  Banana chair potato!

Silly!

Over the weekend my parents came up to watch the Olympic opening ceremonies and hang out with the kiddos.  Ross and Ruby had gotten sick during the week so we opted to stay in and relax with pizza.  We love the Olympics.  They are so much fun and it was nice spending time with my parents.  We also got to go out for our biannual Conference dinner with Steve's fam. (For everyone who read the General Conference talks).  It was pretty fun.  Steve's parents were nice and took the kiddos to their house and we snuck out to see The Lego Movie which I laughed quite hard at and felt like it was a sort of Monty Python/Napoleon Dynamite type of movie.  You can see it once straight through and quote the parts you thought were hilarious, and then not feel the need to see it again for quite some time.  We stayed the night at Steve's parents last second and headed back the next morning.

For FHE we decided to have a lesson on Obedience.  Something Ross has a bit of trouble with.  After Steve gave the lesson here's what conversation occurred:


Dad: "Ross, do you want to be obedient to Heavenly Father?"
Ross: "No"
Mom: "Should we be obedient to Heavenly Father?"
Ross: "Yes"

At least this kid understands agency...we just need to work on HOW we use it.


At Costco the other day Ross and Ruby were sitting side by side in the cart.  Ross was eating his snacks and Ruby really wanted one.  I asked Ross to hand her one, as he did, I had Ruby say, "Thank-you!"  She caught on to this.  So every time she wanted a snack she would dive bomb her hand into his snack cup saying, "Dank you!" as sweet as can be.  Ross didn't buy of course, but I couldn't help laughing at it. :)

Ruby's been screaming a bit more...such a fun phase right?  Her demands have become more and more in number.  I am not allowed to play the piano for longer than 30 seconds before she's demanding to be picked up suddenly and held so she can play.  Doing the dishes or cooking is out of the question as well.  Her perimeter checks have increased in their number and boundaries.  She now demands to see what's happening on the counter tops and shelves.  She's also added hand motions to some of her words :)



Ross gets more and more fun every day.  He's pretty much got potty training down.  He goes in the regular toilet, and even when we're out he'll let me know and hold it until he gets to the bathroom.  Naps are without diapers, and we're getting closer to bedtime being without diapers.  It's SO much easier now and I'm SO SO SO glad (knock on wood) that he caught on so quick.  I think it was good waiting a bit longer with him so he could warm up to the idea and I could psych myself up to just do it.  Hopefully Ruby won't be hard to do - which knowing her personality and wanting to do what big kids do - she'll be a piece of cake. :)

In other news, we've been watching the Olympics like crazy and wanting to be Olympians ourselves.  Steve's still loving his internship, learning SO much, and getting ready to go check out a job offer in Yuma, AZ in March.  He's got quite the load on his plate finishing his CAPstone, preparing an Inservice, job hunting, and studying for Boards.  He's amazing though and we are all so proud of how hard he works.  

All in all, we're riding out the winter and enjoying our little family as we go. :) 

Oh - and enjoying dance parties - those are the best.  My kids' gots moves!