Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Things I Don't Want to Forget

My children are adorable and drive me crazy at the same time.  When we put them to bed and they're sleeping Steve and I laugh about all the funny and not-so-funny-at-the-time things that happened that day.  Some recent things that have caught my attention make me want to never forget them.

Ruby has been a bit sick off and on lately and has turned into a multiple personality gal.  She can't just be a mix of anything - it's one or the other and can change on you at the drop of a hat.  One minute she's wailing and inconsolable and the second someone walks in the room she turns around with a chipper, "Hi!" and a smile.  She kills me.

This last week she has suddenly found an obsession with books (Yay!).  In her moodiness and in between screaming, she will find a book, pick it up, waddle on over to me holding it out with her "I'm serious" face, squawk at me pulling on me to sit down.  If I comply, she's turns her little self around, backs up (I can almost hear the beeping) - if she's too far away she forgets how to go backward and does a big u-turn instead before turning back around and plopping down right in my lap with a few little wiggles to find the comfy spot.  I open the book and we both read it to each other.  She's very animated with pointing and poking her finger into the book, jabbering, and then grabbing at the next page.  Her very favorite book at the moment is one called Easter because there are little windows you can slide back and forth as well as her favorite page with the mommy animals and the babies.  I think it's mostly because she can say those words.  Another favorite is No David!  also because she knows the word, "No no!"

Any book that can be sung is even better - at least Ruby thinks so.


We probably spend at least a quarter of our day doing this...

She loves trying lots of words now - Ra - for Ross, Boo - for book, "A bye" for a bite when she wants more or something of yours - also she uses the word "Too!" or "More" also if she wants something.  Potty, Pee, Poop, Ni-Ni for Nite-nite.  She'll also fold him arms for prayer most of the time and loves to say, "Amay" for Amen at the end. She loves to play peek-a-boo and will cover her eyes with her hands and say, "Where are you?" and "Pee-a-boo!"  She loves to play "I'm gonna get you!" and runs away while chanting "I'm ge you!"  She loves the Itsy Bitsy Spider song - which was the only thing that would allow me to feed her without her blocking my spoon or spitting it out.  She likes to put her fingers together for the spider.  She likes to say, "How are ya" and "Hello" "Hey" and "Hi" while pretending to be on the phone - she'll use anything to be a phone.  She's obsessed with my phone - if I ever get a call she's always squawking in the background demanding that I hand over my phone.  Just a heads up if you ever think about calling me.  She still loves Ross's monkey too.  I keep finding it in random places. 

Here's a little gem of a song that's a favorite of Ruby's too. 

She loves blueberries, strawberries, gnawing on carrots and celery, frozen peas, cheese, oranges, pears, bananas (only if you let her eat it out of the peel though), goldfish, pretzels, spaghetti, and cheerios.  She goes through phases of wanting to do all the feeding herself and then letting you do it because it's faster. She's also in a phase of throwing everything off her tray...sigh...that one always seems to last forever.  With her screaming at me more, I decided to attempt the spray-water-in-her-face method I had tried with Ross when he had a weird screaming phase.  The results for each child seem to fit their personality.  With Ross, it seemed to shock him and stop him mid-scream, but after a morning of it, he just kept screaming...and ended up with a dripping wet face and an empty spray bottle.  I tried it once with Ruby which shocked her and then led to an immense amount of tears - she was completely devastated that I would do something like that to her...so I got more screaming instead.  Oh the things you'll try as a parent!

Lately Ruby has been looking so much taller to me, and she has been so sassy!  She's a woman on a mission and is not so in to you messing with her plans.  She'll stop anything though if there's a dance party going on.  She LOVES music and stamps her feet and bounces her little bottom to any tune.  She tends to put her arms out straight in front of her with her hands connected and bounces them while stamping her feet.  It reminds me of Ross's chicken wing dance he would do while turning in a circle.  There really is nothing so cute as little kids groovin' with their bodies.  It just makes it obvious how music really speaks to all of us.

Ruby LOVES dance parties!  With Daddy is even more fun!

Ross's dancing lately must involve this dump truck - he runs around pushing it everywhere.


This girl is WAY into dancing!
You go girl!


Beautiful :)


Camera...spotted.

Too busy dancing to hold still for the camera

Taking a dance break...in the bumbo we're loaning to my nephew.

Stuck

Oh well

Epic dump truck dancing

Ross is always making me laugh.  If he's ever unsure of something or doesn't think it's a good idea he'll say, "No mom, that's too dangerous!"  He never says he "peed" in the potty.  It's, "I tooted!"  He's gotten a recent obsession with Harold and the Purple Crayon, and was star stricken when I told him (after reading it 4 times in a row) that I had a movie of it (thank-you scholastic book orders!).  He also loves the book Me Too by Mercer Mayer which is adorable.  Ruby likes reading it too.  Hop on Pop is one he likes to read with his daddy.  It's called, "Hop Ooooonn Pop" though - you have to say it right.  It's funny if I'm reading to Ross, she'll come up and do her backing up deal and try to plop herself in the middle of it even though there's no room.  Oh it does my heart good that my children love books.


Cutie :)

Ross's cheesy "Cheese!" face :)

We've been reading about the stories of Moses in the scriptures with Ross and I've got him where if I ask him what Moses says he recites, "Let My People Goooo!" and Pharaoh says, "No, no, no!"  Ruby likes to chant that one.  Ross will say the prayers if we tell him he's doing it.  If he's ever asked he points to you and says, "No you pray!"  He always remembers to bless grandmas and grandpas in his prayers without fail - they're keepers in his book. :)

Ross has been a bit more interested in his tricycle lately.  With it getting warmer it's encouraging.  He prefers the slightly downhill paths though, otherwise I find myself just pushing him off and on with my foot.  

Yesterday we were playing outside and took on the task of gathering and breaking up fallen branches, filling a loader, and dumping them in a play truck to take to the garbage.  Ross loved every second.  I'm pretty sure he was imagining being on a Mighty Machines episode while we did it.  He loves climbing up and down ladders these days too - instead of just taking the slide down.  He's never been one for slides really.  
 
Just workin'


Loading the truck

In other news, I went down to Snow College with my mom and sis to see a play, "Seven Bride for Seven Brothers" which was hilarious and adorable and even more endearing when I realized it took place in Oregon.  It's so fun being with the girls, we chatter like crazy, laugh at everything, and love every second.  
 
On our way to the play!

I also got the calling in my ward to be the Primary pianist.  I'm glad - it will make me practice a little more and I get to enjoy the primary kids again.  It's only one of the hours too since our Primary is so small.  Steve is the Elder's Quorum secretary and is doing well there too.

This weekend we somehow managed to squeeze in three dates in a row (the blessing of grandparents who live near their grandchildren).  We were going to go to the temple Friday night, but left too late, so we ended up grabbing dinner and seeing the second Hobbit again which was fun...and a reminder that I'm old. We saw the 10 o'clock showing...three hour movie...we fell asleep through half of it.  The next morning we went early to the Temple and enjoyed the wonderful peace and blessings that come from serving there.  

On the way back home I had gotten my times mixed up for my cousin Ashley's baby shower...so Steve dropped me off - totally not ready - at her place instead of going home and getting ready.  It was so fun to see my aunties and cousins and Ashley's little girl, Ellie.  The shower was perfect timing since she went into labor early the next morning and had a beautiful boy, Benji, at 3:30 that afternoon. 
Organizing the french dips...


Random three generation pic. :)  Me, Mom, and Grams!

The bunch!  Left to right: My mom, me, Ashley, Cara, my Aunt Celia, Aislinn, Aunt Renee, Ashley's neighbor Audrey, my Grams, and Aunt Robin.


We also celebrated my mom's birthday.  Woot woot!  We went down on Sunday and had my dad's delicious hamburgers, strawberry shortcake, played a GREAT game called Rollicks that's a spin off charades making there by only one guesser and the rest the actors for the different words.  The kids only lasted so long though so we cut to presents.  We got my mom tickets to go see Pride and Prejudice at BYU this month. It should be a ton of fun! (Happy Birthday to me too!) ;)  It was so fun to be with family.

 
Happy Birthday Mom!


Party Dad!

Deer in the headlights!

Cutie :)

Sis :)

Dain mid-bite!

Janae - beautiful as usual :)

Ross excited for presents :)

Grams enjoying the great grandkiddies

I have no label for Steve's face.... :)

Random...

Presents!

Ross serenading Grandma with "Happy Birthday"

The boys taking their turn playing Rollick - hilarious.


 And last Sunday was actually quite easy taking care of two kids with 2:30PM for a Sacrament meeting.  This kid was driving a truck on the floor...and completely fell asleep.  He's adorable. :)
Sleepy boy

     

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

BFF's Reunite and President's Day...

So Ross hasn't had NEAR as many play dates as we used to have in Oregon.  It's just not as convenient as it was there.  I mean...looking out my window was about as far as I had to go since everyone seemed to live within about 40 feet of us.  

Needless to say he has missed his best buddies.  Wes and Ross were sort of made best buds since Kim and I arranged to swap boys while we exercised...it worked out so nicely - we did it all the way through having our second babies even.  It makes me laugh thinking of how they started off together - no acknowledgment.  They'd just separate and go play with their individual toys.  Eventually when the routine sunk in, they started getting excited when they'd see each other with a "Hi!" or "Hey!" and giant smiles...and then go play with their individual toys.  Finally they actually started playing together which was really fun...with bouts of sharing issues here and there, but they definitely liked hanging out together (since they had to be twice a week two hours at a time).  

When we moved back to Utah we skyped with Wes on the computer and Ross would reconfirm that Wes was in Colorado (on their internship) and then ask to go to his house since he was over talking to Wes on the "compeeter" (as he calls it).  One benefit of getting our three bedroom apartment was having a bit more space to work with - so we made sure to snag Wes and the fam to stay with us on their way back to Oregon when their rotation finished.   

We had a few moments of panic with Ross getting sick the day before in the morning and then again when Wes got sick the night before they were leaving, but we got to keep them here anyway for a couple days.  

Ross and Wes chatted like no time had passed and played toys like old times (which growls, grunts, and squeals in the sharing department) which I'm sure was good for both of them since sharing wasn't at the top of the list with fewer play dates occurring.  
 
These are the smiles I got...their dinner conversation consisted of, "I'm eating my dinner!"  "What's on your shirt?"  and "This is my cup."  Adorable.  They chatted at each other like no time had passed.



Chillin'


We had fun chatting, eating, and trying to line up nap times so we could all play some games without kids pulling at legs or snatching cards.  That lasted for about 45 blissful minutes. ;)
 
Buckets on heads always make for good pictures


Cameron knew how to sport it well...

The night before they left we chatted till it was super late about all our ideas for future parenting.  It was quite fun brainstorming how to monitor and teach our children important life lessons.  Some of them included:

1) Keep chickens and a garden.  If they want eggs for breakfast, take care of the chicken, you'll get your eggs...don't take care of it, and no eggs.  Simple.

2)  Small bedrooms and a big play room encourages families to spend time together more often.

3) Don't be afraid to power box your house if electronics become an issue.

4) Phones chargers located in the parent's room, also electronics get turned in nightly.  Nothing important needs to be played or person texted to after midnight.

5) Every kid needs to have a job they hate for a time...to learn that work won't always be fun or what you have in mind...makes you appreciate having any other sort of job.

Those were a few of the gems we came away with.  I think I'm all for brainstorming with other couples more often.  You get some great ideas from each other!

It went way too fast and three months till we see them at graduation seems so long, but we're so happy we got to spend some time with them anyway!
 
Dog piling in the mornings :)


Quick kids!


Dawson needed a snuggle.  Ruby figured they had it covered.

Wes liked following Ruby around making sure she stayed out of trouble.  Ruby liked the following around part...not so much the staying out of trouble part.

 On Sunday, Steve's dad was called to the Stake Presidency in their ward.  He will do a great job serving the Church in this way we know.  We got to go to their Stake Conference and be there for the setting apart.  It was a privilege to hear Elder Evans speak and have our testimonies strengthened throughout the meetings and the setting apart.  

The next day, President's Day, seemed appropriate to celebrate Steve's dad! ;)  Haha.  They burned their Christmas tree - which went way too fast.  We were supposed to have a weenie roast, but ended up grilling them instead.  It was fun anyway and we enjoyed a family night presentation by Steve's dad sharing the counsel he received during his training.  
 
The tree!



Wahoo!


Rubes was trying to figure out walking on the grass.  Piece of cake if she had one of your fingers.  Alone...and no idea what to do.

Still a happy pants though!

Heading to try a different fire with President Grandpa ;)

Ruby still hasn't moved... ;)

Trying to decide how to approach this. :)

Trying out the swing.

Ross wanted a turn!

This is how Ruby would hold her hands when she wanted you to come get her.

Trying to blow the fire!

Cute Daddy Daughter pic

Love ;)

Today I took the kids out to the park for the morning since the weather was so nice.  We had a great time and in turn, the kiddos took great naps!  Wahoo for me!  Life is good. :)

Rubes preferred running away at the park - it was the perfect game :)

Throwing pinecones is the BEST at the park.


Swingin'!
 
Bubble Girl :)